E V I E


Evie went home to be with God in October, 2003.

She hadn't been able to march with us that summer prior,
and I think we all knew that we'd have to start saying our final "Goodbyes" very soon.

Before she passed, she was able to attend The Spirit of 469's late-August victory party
after we won Nationals in St. Louis, MO.
The trophies we brought home from that trip were, of course,
as much hers as they were ours,
and we're glad she got a chance to hold them before she left us.

At the funeral home, we gave her the best "send-off" we knew how.
(What does a group DO when their Chaplain dies?
After all, this funeral stuff was HER "job"...)

We revised the funeral service from the Auxiliary guidebook and shared personal testimonies
about Evelyn's faith, spirit and her impact on all of us.
Diana played and sang, "Closer to Home" while Evelyn's sister Auxiliary members
each placed a poppy in her casket.

Then, after the visitors were gone and only her immediate family and color guard family were left,
we gathered around her casket and quietly sang our traditional song (which Evelyn had always loved):
"The Sheik of Arabie."

We'll see Evie again one day, and what a day of rejoicing that will be!
Until then, we remember her fondly--
her persistence as she struggled to finish parades when her breath and strength were failing;
her zest for life which belied her advanced age;
her good humor at times when others around her were losing theirs;
her support of those who needed encouragement and a kind word;
and those cheeky little taps on our backsides with her sabre as she teased along with the rest of us.

She was an inspiration and a blessing,
and there will never be another like her.

We miss you, Evie!

Below, in her own words, is Evie's story of how she came to march with this
rowdy little troupe known as The Spirit of 469.




"One day, Joe and I were in the Post and the Color Guard ladies came in. They were elated over winning something. From that minute, I knew I wanted to be part of that unit.

I asked one of the girls how someone could join and she said to join them at one of their practices.

When I did, the Christmas parade was coming up but I wasn't ready to start to march just yet. The wonderful ladies took such patience to help me. I had never had any experience in marching.

I'm very proud to be in the Guard and very lucky to have such a bunch of grand ladies putting up with me these past few years. The color guard is my second family.

I love each and every one of them--the ones in the Guard now, and those who have left. We share our joys and our hurts with each other.

A very special, "Thank you" to Cathy, our sargeant. She is the best! She holds a special spot in my heart.

The Color Guard has given me purpose in this world; it shows me I can do anything I put my mind to.

Thanks, gals; I love you all!"

- Evie

Evie was a real inspiration to us all. She was our "most senior" marcher but had the drive and spirit of the youngest members of our ranks--but SHE never whined!! (Besides all that, she used to bring us souvenirs from her many vacations--that's the only reason we ever let her go away at all! [But I don't think we'll be getting pens from this, her final trip...]) Thanks for sharing her with us, Joe! She was truly one in a million!